Paul
Whitney died Nov 10th a short 7 months ago, and his son, Andy, who
took over the store a few years ago from his dad, is still very affected by it
and dedicated to his father’s memory.
So,
fittingly, he arranged a memorial for his dad on Fathers day and revealed the stone
memorial he had made during the winter.
The
gathering in front of the store was preceded by a short speech by son and
current store proprietor, Andy
“My
sister and I want to thank you for taking this time out of your day for our
dad. Especially being that it is father’s day.
My
Dad loved Kismet and it is only fitting that he has a great view of it (the
memorial stone faces the marina and the Bay)
But
more importantly he loved the people of Kismet
Seeing
all the wonderful faces here is a testament to that.
He
is greatly missed but his spirit is all around and the kind words you all share
keep his memory vivid in all of us
I
thank you again and Happy Fathers day to all the fathers out there”.
It
was touching to see the family together:
Andy’s fiancée, Debbie, his son Benny and her daughter, Erica
Sister Lori and husband Jim, their children Nick and Whitney
Sister Linda and husband Gary, their children Olivia and Justin
Paul’s sister in law Lynn and her children Frankie and Tami.
And
indeed his Kismet family; from Paul’s oldest friends, Joyce and Larry Cole of
the INN, to Ashley and Mugsy, and his little son Leyden, (week old sister
Riley at home) and the Sam Woods family.
Also
among the crowd were (and are) his longtime customers; Myrna, Roz, Mike &
Dusty, Mike & Marge, among them, some with stories to tell attesting to
the bond of trust and friendship he established with all of us. Since it was
father’s day, with many celebrating off island, and a beautiful beach day, the
crowd was intimate but choice.
Sister
Laurie read the following poem:
“I thought of you today, but that is nothing…
I
thought about you yesterday
And
days before that, too
I
think of you in silence,
I
often speak your name
Now
all I have is memories, and your picture in a frame
Your
memory is my keepsake from which I’ll never part
God
has you in his keeping
But
I have you in my heart”
Paul
would have enjoyed the tribute; short, sentimental but not too mushy, with
smiles instead of tears.
For
more about Paul’s life in pictures and stories from his friends and customers
see:
http://theaterscene.com/PaulWhtney.html